Good afternoon Jeanne-Erin. I hope you are well.
Our disagreement is merely that I don't think that her mistake of continuing to use the word "she" was intentionally being spiteful in that moment. Of course, I don't know that for sure.
Please don't assume that just because I have a different opinion to you that I didn't read what you wrote and that I am merely wasting your time. That, along with the "I hope you eventually learn to do better" comment comes across as rather condescending.
For what it's worth, if someone was to make it clear to me that they wanted to be referred to in a particular way, I would try to remember to refer to them in that way, because there's nothing to be gained from deliberately trying to upset someone. But at the same time, I think it's worth being tolerant of people making genuine mistakes.
While I admit that I do find the whole gender pronouns thing a little bit baffling, I'm not enraged by it to the degree that the author of this article is, and I wouldn't have written an article quite like that. If I was to write about this topic, it would likely be more balanced and less ranty than this one.
All the best,
Edward.