…g read. With the exception of military/frequent moving, you’ve described my “social life” to a T.
When I see those large, loud friend groups at a restaurant or bar, I do wonder if there is something wrong with me. But then I remember that I dislike big social events, have no patience for small talk, and cringe at superficiality. Trying to fit into a big group makes me anxious. Deep, one-on-one conversations mean so much more to me.
There’s this dichotomy between feeling bad about being excluded and not enjoying myself when I’m …